Cheating can be discovered by accident or by thorough investigation. At Darwin Securities, we believe the best proof of infidelity is evidence. As Tampa private surveillance experts we work diligently to provide you with hard evidence of infidelity. In the event a spouse isn’t cheating, our services provide you with peace of mind so you can get on with life again.
If you want to find out if your spouse is cheating, watch their activity closely. Scan the phone bill for calls made at weird times, like early mornings or late at night. Take note of numbers called the most at these times. You may notice a trend.
One of the quickest ways to catch a cheater is to hire a firm that specializes in private surveillance in Tampa. A private investigator will do all the work so you don’t have to. When you leave the work to someone experienced you reduce the risk of mistakes. This is especially true if you are involved in a divorce litigation.
Keep a Journal
Discovering infidelity can be a traumatizing experience. Wondering about your spouse’s possible infidelity can send you on an emotional roller coaster. This may affect your ability to think logically at times. Keep a journal of dates, people, places, and times. When you confront your spouse you’ll have written proof, not vague memories to prove infidelity.
Trust Your Instincts
Learn to trust your instincts. The old adage, “hindsight is 20/20” still rings true. Countless times people miss red flags only to find out later they were evidence of cheating. An example of this could be shrugging off a person’s odd behavior towards you. Later you find out their behavior was related to their involvement with your spouse. If you have a gut instinct about someone, observe both your spouse and their behavior.
If you’re a person with a pretty consistent routine, it’s time to switch things up a bit. Arrive home earlier than expected from work. Drop in unannounced for a surprise work lunch with your spouse. If your spouse is a consistent gym goer, but you aren’t, start going to the gym sporadically. The key is to show up during activities they’d least expect you to.
All too often, people don’t pay attention to finances. This can happen easily if the cheating spouse happens to handle the family’s finances. You can do so by scanning bank and credit card statements for odd transactions.
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